Summer is my favorite season, always has been, always will be. Especially when it comes to fashion. My style is pretty basic, I love neutral colors and casual, laid-back looks. If you're like me, you'll love these looks as well.Read More
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I recently was asked how I don't go crazy with spending so much time with my daughter. That question took me by surprise, and I wasn't sure how to answer.
Of course, it got me thinking.
I don't get much alone time, other than nap time. I don't get much time to myself. I don't go out much by myself, or even really take much "me time". So how is it that I'm still sane? Am I even sane? Have I gone crazy and there's no turning back so it's just the new normal?
I don't consider myself a stay at home mom because I do work (only 3 hours a week..). But I pretty much am a stay at home mom. Which is great, because that's always what I wanted to be.
In 2nd grade when we were asked to write about what we wanted to be when we grew up, while all the other kids wrote about being astronauts and firefighters, I wrote about being a mom.
Today in our culture kids are seen as a burden rather than a blessing (at least here in southern california), people put it off until the last second. Like, there are much more important things to do and kids ruin everything, so put off having children until you have 2 eggs left and you can't wait any longer. We, as a society, are so obsessed with money and career that family is becoming less and less of value. "Don't you have dreams and aspirations?" "You didn't buy a home before having kids?", is what I imagine they're thinking when they see me. What they actually say is "you're too young to be a mom."
Oh, I am? Well somehow it still worked... the sperm found the egg despite my age and economic status. But thank you for your opinion that you stated as a fact.
I've often heard about or seen comments like "you're so strong and brave and independent for leaving your baby to go work". Not too long ago, you were looked down upon for leaving your child with a caregiver to work, but now it's the complete opposite where you're looked down upon if you don't leave your child with a caregiver to go work. Neither are right, in my opinion. I have a great respect for ambitious women because I wouldn't necessarily consider myself one. The world needs ambitious women. But the world also needs "just a mom"s. Isn't that an equally brave and strong thing? To sacrifice your dreams and ambitions for the wellbeing of your child. To spend your days pouring yourself out to rarely be filled back up. Isn't that equally empowering?
I've always felt kind of ashamed of the fact that I just wanted to be a wife and a mom. I always felt so much pressure to be more than that, as if there's anything better and more fulfilling than motherhood. I always thought I wouldn't be satisfied unless I was doing big things for the Lord, and like I wasn't called to an ordinary life. Or If I didn't graduate college (which I didn't) and establish a career (which I didn't), but instead got married and had babies (which I did) that I would somehow be a failure.
But, now, here I am in this ordinary life, and I'm realizing it's exactly where I'm supposed to be and that there was never anything wrong with desiring to be "just a mom". It's the most important job in the world. I, personally, can't see a greater definition of feminism than motherhood itself.
No woman should be looked down upon whether they choose to be a "traditional" wife and mother, or whether they choose to chase their dreams via career. We're all strong and we're all brave. My daughter will grow up knowing that she can do anythign she wants, even if that means being "just a mom" like her mom.
It's my second mother's day, and I'm so excited! Last year Jesse woke up early and made me a huge feast for breakfast (see the post here). The year before that we still celebrated because I was pregnant, and I bought myself this bag (because I needed an excuse). Ha!
This year, I treated myself to some goodies (some of which are in this guide). Jesse got the day off work, too, so I'm excited to be able to spend the entire day together as a family.Read More
Well, this gloomy and chilly weather came out of nowhere! But I'm not complaining, other than the fact that I really would have loved to wear our matching rompers all day. I was so excited to put them on in the morning, then we walked outside and was utterly disappointed.Read More
Parenting and motherhood are the most beautiful God-given job on this earth, but it also really sucks. We're given these precious lives to nurture and take care of, but only for a short time, until they develop their own dreams and desires and opinions and leave us high and dry for the next best thing.
It's the most fulfilling, yet heartbreaking job. Knowing that I cannot hold her safe in my arms forever. Knowing that I can't keep her to myself forever. Knowing that I will eventually have to let go.Read More
So, I've been coveting some Olympia Activewear for a while and finally took the plunge and bought myself a set. And I love it! Probably the most flattering leggings I've ever owned, and I have another set sitting in my cart waiting to come home to me.
I love the colors and unique design, and I could literally give them all my money. And I probably will end up doing so...Read More
So, this is basically just a photo dump because we packed so much into one weekend that I'm too overwhelmed to write it all. I will say, however, this is one of the best weekends we've had in a while. Jesse was off for 4 days in a row which never happens! So we took full advantage of it.
Enjoy allll the pictures :)Read More
Nap time, oh nap time. I love you. You allow me to do so many things like snack on those cookies I dont want to share, and binge watch that show on Netflix I don't want Ever to watch, and even maybe get a workout in.
This is a simple 20ish minute workout that you can easily do at home with no equipment.Read More
When you become a parent, you begin to see the world in a different light.
You see all its beauty in a new way, but you also notice more of the bad things like chemicals, toxins, carcinogens, etc. everywhere. That's why I appreciate companies like Baby Mantra, who go to extreme precautions to make sure their product is safe for little ones.Read More
Jesse went into work at noon today. The days he works 12-8 are very bittersweet. It means we have time to do something in the morning, but it also means he doesn't get home until late, usually after Evvie is already in bed. Today, he's MOD (manager on duty) which means he'll be extra late because he has to be the last one to leave.Read More
"Great minds start little." That's Baby Einstein's philosophy, and it's so true. Our babes, from the time they're born, are sponges, soaking up every little thing they see and hear and taste and touch.
That's why we love the 3-in-1 Snack and Discover Seat by Baby Einstein (available at Babies R Us), because it encourages baby to reach developmental milestones like sitting up, snacking, and sitting with family at the table, as well as encourages learning, laughing, and family moments. There are 3 parts to the seat: Support Seat for the floor, Snack and Activity Seat with tray for the floor, and Chair Top Booster Seat strapped to a chair. It's super easy to move from one place to another around the house, and there's a soft and removable foam material on the seat which adds comfort and makes it easy to clean.Read More
Woke up at 3:45am, hit the road at 4:30, parked our car, caught the shuttle, got to the airport, found our gate, and flight delayed.
Then, of course, dealing with Evvie on the plane was the greatest task at hand. Or so we thought.
We finally landed, and realized that we needed a way to get to the hotel. Duh. We knew we would but thought it would be as easy as catching a shuttle. But nope. We didn't bring our carseat, and a shuttle that didn't require a carseat was around $50 per person. So we looked into the BART and decided against that as well because we'd have to be lugging our bags around while trying to keep Ever calm in the Ergo.Read More
I haven't blogged in over a month. How sad. Things have been crazy over here, but I'm happy to get back into it with this little spontaneous adventure we went on.
I always forget that this time of year the weather is bipolar. It'll be 50 degrees when you leave in the morning and then 80 by noon. So, note to self: dress in layers. I was wearing a long sleeve with jeans and very quickly regretted it. Granted, we weren't planning to go to the zoo when we left in the morning, otherwise I would have planned ahead.
Ever woke up at 5:30 in the morning. So we had lots of time to get ready and somehow made it out of the house by 9 to go to Denny's with Jesse's mom and grandma. And, there was a white wall. So, photos, duh.Read More
You know when you find a shop and you just have to have everything in it?
Yeah, that's Fernweh Home. From the triangle shelves to the hanging nighstands, everything has me drooling. And! It's all made from reclaimed wood. Pictured here is the hanging nightstand and I love it even more than I thought I would. We only got one for now but we're planning to get another for the other side.
We thought it might be too much with the hanging lights and hanging banner, but the hanging nightstand makes the area look clean and ties it all together perfectly.Read More
Swell & Solis is a children's brand based in Australia, and we are in love with everything they make. Pictured here is the Dune Romper in baby pink. It's a little big on her so I twisted the straps in the back to make them shorter. I love that it can work in the winter with a long sleeve shirt under, and I cannot wait for her to wear it in the summer to show off those cute toddler legs and back. We also got the White Periwinkle Pinafore, which will look adorable for the summer as well, it's a little too big now.Read More
Another trip to Utah.
We didn't get to see my family for christmas this year so we had to plan a trip a couple weeks into january. Plus, we were waiting for my sister to have her precious baby boy.
It worked out perfectly, as it always does, and my extended family was able to travel south to see us, and we did our whole chirstmas thing together.Read More
It's been a long time coming in my search for the perfect coffee creamer. Which, this one is stil by no means perfect, but it is delicious. Recently, my taste buds have changed. Because in the past couple years I've been eating more organic foods, my body has started to recognize what's real vs what's fake, and my coffee creamers were no exception.
We shop at Trader Joes, and I love it with all my heart. But, their coffee creamers are kind of the worst. First, they're lactose free, so obviously there has to be some sort of chemical process to make it a creamy creamer. And, second, the ingredients are frightening. I used to trust anything I bought from Trader Joes because I thought everything they sold had good ingredients, but I was wrong.Read More
Even as a barre instructor, I totally understand the struggle to make time for working out. It's a struggle just getting out of the house most days.. If I wasn't "forced" to workout by teaching 3 times a week, I would have a hard time doing it at all. SO here are some super simple workouts you can do in that precious naptime. All you need is 5 minutes.Read More
Happy 1st birthday to our little Ever Joy!
This party, though a lot of work, was so much fun to plan. I've never planned a birthday party before, and the last event I planned was our wedding, soo I was a little rusty. And I totally thought it was going to be a disaster, but it all worked out! Thanks to my list making skills and my amazing mom for helping.Read More